Preparation Things You Need to Do:
1. Choosing the right dildoChoosing the right dildo is key before engaging in self-exploration:
Material: Silicone dildos are usually softer and suitable for beginners; glass and metal dildos are harder and require a higher level of comfort and adaptability.
Size: Choose a size that suits your needs. For the first time, choose a dildo with a moderate diameter and length, and try different sizes as you get used to them.
Design: Choose a dildo with a suction cup base can be better fixed on a flat surface to prevent sliding.
2. Environmental Setting
Creating a comfortable and safe environment is essential for a pleasurable experience:
Clean environment: Make sure the area where it is used is clean and comfortable. This can be done on a bed, couch, or a specialized mat.
Privacy: Choose a private space to avoid disturbances and interruptions, helping you to be more relaxed for self-exploration.
3. Apply lubricant
The use of lubricants can significantly improve comfort:
Choice of lubricant: Use a water-based lubricant that is compatible with most dildo materials and is easy to clean.
How to apply: Apply the lubricant evenly over the surface of the dildo and your own body to minimize friction and enhance comfort.
How to Sit on the Dildo?
1. Relax your body
Before sitting on the dildo, it is very important to relax your body:
Mental preparation: keep a relaxed mind and take deep breaths to relieve tension. You can do some self-massage to help the body into a relaxed state.
Choose a position: choose a comfortable position, you can sit on the edge of the bed, on the sofa or on a special seat cushion.
2. Positioning the dildo
Correct placement of the dildo helps to ensure comfort and safety:Secure the dildo: If the dildo has a suction cup base, it can be securely fastened to a flat surface, such as a bathroom tile or headboard. Make sure the dildo does not slide or shift during use.
Check the angle: Adjust the angle and orientation of the dildo to ensure that you can enter smoothly when sitting down and find the most suitable point of stimulation.
3. Sit on it gently
The process of sitting on the dildo requires careful handling:Sit down slowly: sit gently on the dildo and gradually insert it into the body, starting from the tip of the dildo. On the first attempt, move slowly and gradually get used to its size and shape.
Control depth: You can use your hand to assist in adjusting the depth of insertion of the dildo to find the most comfortable position. Be careful not to rush full insertion and adapt gradually.
4. Adjusting posture and movement
After sitting on the dildo, you can try different postures and movements to find the most comfortable way of stimulation:Adjusting position: You can try different sitting positions, such as sitting straight, leaning forward or semi-sitting down, to find the most suitable position for you. Different positions can provide different stimulation effects.
Move gently: Try moving your body gently, such as sliding up and down, bobbing back and forth, or moving in a circular motion to increase stimulation. Adjust to your personal comfort level and needs.
Tips to increase comfort
1. Use a supportWhen sitting on a dildo, using a number of supports can increase comfort:
Seat cushion: using a soft seat cushion or pillow can reduce friction between your body and the dildo and increase comfort.
Backrest: choosing a seat with a backrest can provide extra support and help you maintain your position better.
2. Listen to your body's feedback
Pay close attention to your body's reactions and make adjustments as needed:
Adjust the strength: Based on your body's feedback, adjust the depth and strength of the dildo insertion. Avoid over-stimulation, which can cause discomfort.
Rest: If you feel tired or uncomfortable, pause, rest for a moment, and then resume using the dildo.
Cleaning and Maintenance After Use
1. Cleaning the dildoThe dildo should be thoroughly cleaned after each use:
Cleaning: Wash the dildo with warm water and mild soap to remove lubricant and body fluid residue. For glass or metal dildos, special cleaners can be used.
Drying: Dry the dildo thoroughly after cleaning to prevent bacteria from growing in the humid environment.
2. Storage and maintenance
Proper storage of dildos can prolong their life:
Storage: Store the dried dildo in a clean, dry environment, protected by a special storage bag or box.
Inspection: Check the condition of the dildo regularly to ensure that it is not damaged or deformed.
Frequently Asked Questions
1. What should I do if I feel uncomfortable while sitting on a dildo?If you feel discomfort while sitting on a dildo, you should stop using it immediately and check if there is enough lubricant and if the dildo fits properly. If the discomfort persists, it is advisable to consult a medical professional.
2. How do I choose the right size of dildo?
The choice of dildo size should be based on individual comfort and needs. For the first time, it is recommended to choose a dildo with a small diameter and moderate length, and try different sizes after gradual adaptation.
