Hey, my friends, welcome to my blog. Today we're going to talk about a somewhat private but super interesting topic - Best Dildo Positions for Men. When it comes to using dildos, we men usually stimulate our prostate. To find the right position for us to use a dildo, we need to understand what this "mysterious little organ" - the prostate - is and why we should stimulate it.
As we all know, the prostate in men's bodies is a very important organ, like a loyal little guard, sitting firmly at the bottom of the pelvic cavity, shaped somewhat like a small chestnut, closely guarding the urethra. The prostate fluid it secretes is a key component of semen and plays a significant role in reproduction. From a medical perspective, stimulating the prostate can be a helpful tool for diagnosing and treating conditions like prostatitis. Doctors can take a sample of fluid by massaging the prostate to check its health and help patients expel accumulated fluid, thereby alleviating inflammation. From a sexual experience standpoint, many people consider the prostate to be the "mysterious G-spot" for men. If stimulated properly with a dildo, it can bring about a particularly wonderful sensation and even trigger an extremely intense orgasm. However, everyone's response to this stimulation varies greatly, depending on their individual body structure, how sensitive their nerves are, and their psychological state at the time.
Using a dildo to stimulate the prostate through the rectum is a common method. Why? Because the anterior wall of the rectum and the prostate are like close neighbors. You can find a comfortable position, such as lying on your side, on your back, or even like a dog with your bottom up (knee-chest position). Then, apply some lubricant to your fingers or the dildo and slowly insert it into the rectum. About 4 to 6 centimeters from the anus, you'll feel the posterior surface of the prostate. It will feel a bit hard and have a small groove in the middle. Gently pressing on the sides and this groove is a common stimulation method. However, everyone's body is different, so the exact location and sensation may vary.
But many factors can affect this "mysterious spot". Age is a "troublemaker" that can change the state of the prostate. For example, older people often have problems with prostate enlargement, which changes the position and shape of the prostate, so the stimulation position needs to be adjusted accordingly. Body type also plays a role. If you're overweight, the distance and positional relationship between the rectum and the prostate will be different due to the extra fat on your belly, so you need to be extra careful when stimulating. Here, we recommend a few dildos suitable for men.
First, there's the simple and easy-to-use "entry-level helper" - the basic massage type dildo. This basic massage type dildo is like a caring little assistant, simple and practical, mainly imitating the feeling of finger stimulation. It is usually made of silicone, soft to the touch, and very friendly to the rectal mucosa, like giving the rectum a gentle hug. For beginners just starting to try prostate stimulation, it's perfect for finding the right feeling and getting familiar with the stimulation rhythm.
The second one is the "happy little elf" that brings intense stimulation - the vibrating dildo. This vibrating dildo has a magical vibration device inside, like a lively little elf, offering various stimulation modes and intensity options. From gentle, comfortable vibrations to intense ones that make you tremble, there are all kinds of intensities to meet different people's needs. It's particularly effective at stimulating the prostate and can bring you very strong pleasure, but use it carefully and gradually get used to it.
In addition, there are multi-functional dildos. The multi-functional dildo is simply a "super little hero", integrating many powerful functions such as vibration, heating, and rotation. The heating function can simulate human body temperature, making you feel as if you were having intimate contact with a real person; the rotation function can stimulate the prostate from different angles, bringing you a brand-new and wonderful experience. Although it has a dazzling array of functions, its operation can be a bit complicated, so be sure to read the instructions carefully before use, or you might get flustered.
Tips for choosing a male dildo
Material safety is the first priority: When choosing sex toys, material safety is absolutely the most important! Medical-grade silicone is an excellent choice. It is non-toxic, odorless, soft, and very compatible with the human body, reducing the risk of allergic reactions. Do not choose those low-quality plastic materials, as they may secretly release substances harmful to the body, which would be very troublesome.
Choose the right size for comfort: If you are a beginner, a dildo with a diameter of about 3 - 4 centimeters is just right. As you get used to it, you can consider a larger one. The length is generally around 8 - 12 centimeters, which can accurately stimulate the prostate without going too deep and causing discomfort. Also, the tip of the dildo should be round and smooth to treat your body gently.
Select functions based on your needs: Beginners should start with basic models to get a feel for prostate stimulation. If you have some experience, you can try multi-functional dildos. But be careful, don't choose those with fancy functions that are not practical and keep breaking down. That would be very disappointing.
Brand reputation is important: Choose well-known brands as much as possible. They have strict production standards and better quality assurance. I suggest you check out other users' reviews or professional evaluation articles to learn more. Don't buy those "three-no" products with no information at all. It's very unsettling to use them.
Key points for safe use of male dildos
Preparation before use
Clean and disinfect the dildo: Give the dildo a "cleaning battle". Before using a new dildo, make sure to thoroughly clean and disinfect it. First, use a mild cleaner, like baby bath gel, to rinse the dildo and remove surface dirt. Then soak it in a dedicated disinfectant solution for about 15 - 20 minutes to kill all bacteria. If you don't have a dedicated disinfectant solution, you can also wipe it with alcohol. But be careful, some materials may not be suitable for alcohol. Check the instructions first. Finally, rinse the dildo with clean water and dry it with a clean towel. Now it's clean and ready to serve you.
Create a comfortable environment: Build your own "happy little nest"
Find a quiet, private, and warm place, like creating your own "happy little nest". Dim the lights to create a warm and romantic atmosphere, and play some soft and soothing music to completely relax your mood. Only then can you better enjoy the upcoming stimulating experience.
Personal hygiene must be in place: Give yourself a "refreshing transformation"
Wash your whole body thoroughly, especially the area around the anus, which will be in direct contact with the dildo. Use warm water and mild body wash to gently clean, and dry it with a clean towel. Make sure it's dry to reduce the risk of infection and make your experience more reassuring.
During use, be careful and don't be careless
Correct insertion: Treat your body gently
Insert the dildo gently and slowly, paying attention to your body's response. If you feel any discomfort, stop immediately and adjust your position. Remember, the key is to be gentle and patient. Enjoy the experience and take your time. Before inserting the dildo, apply plenty of water-based lubricant to make the process smoother. Choose a position that feels most comfortable to you and insert the dildo slowly and gently. If you encounter resistance during insertion, do not force it. Instead, adjust the angle slightly or add more lubricant. Wait until the anus and rectum relax a bit before continuing.
Adjust the stimulation method: Find your "pleasure code"
Adjust the stimulation method according to the type of dildo. For basic ones, manually adjust the angle and intensity like using your fingers. For vibrating ones, start with low-intensity vibration and gradually increase it as you get used to it. Always pay attention to your body's response. If you feel pain or discomfort, stop immediately and don't push yourself.
Control time and frequency: Enjoy the pleasure moderately
Don't use it for too long each time. 15 to 30 minutes is about right. Prolonged use can cause the prostate to remain congested, which is uncomfortable. At the beginning, use it 1 to 2 times a week. As your body gets used to it, don't exceed 3 to 4 times a week. Remember, moderation is key to enjoying the pleasure.
Finally, my friend, while prostate stimulation with a dildo can be fun, it comes with risks such as infection, bleeding, and injury. Be extremely cautious and strictly follow the steps and precautions. I hope everyone can explore their health and sexual experiences in a scientific and safe way. If you have any questions or different opinions on this topic, feel free to leave a comment for discussion. Let's exchange ideas together to make knowledge more abundant and make attempts safer and more reliable!
